As somebody who has been pure for 10 years, I like my hair, however I’ve been by many ups and downs with my kinks and coils. There was the time I made a decision I needed balayage haircolor (an enormous mistake). And the time I took Rihanna’s photograph with me to the salon to encourage my haircut though her hair was straight and mine is curly (yeah, that didn’t work, both). And not too long ago, a sizzling comb expertise that left me with critical warmth injury.
It was the final one which had me Googling wigs.
My first time sporting a wig, I used to be nervous. Did my hair look faux? Would everybody know this wasn’t my actual hair? Would it not fall off in public? However after a number of compliments on my new type, I used to be hooked. The kicker: When Sunday rolled round, as an alternative of the six hours I usually spend on my hair, I had time to meal-prep for the following week, go to the health club, and fold laundry. A wig frees up my time and permits me to reside the life-style I need with out being a slave to my hair routine. All I’ve to do is wash my hair each two weeks and braid it again down.
A wig can be a terrific protecting type to assist my pure hair thrive, keep size, and be more healthy typically. It offers my hair a breather from the fixed styling my pure hair requires. That features twisting it each week and slicking it again within the mornings earlier than work. Whereas I’m sporting my wigs, my hair is safely braided away, and I’ve really discovered that my hair requires much less trimming in the course of the months I’ve it coated as a result of I’m not consistently combing, tugging, and fidgeting with my coils.
Now I’ve purchased a few wigs (Sheila, Monique, and Lisa—sure, I named them) and kinky clip-ins that I can throw into my hair routine at any time. More often than not I nonetheless put on my pure hair, however inevitably I get bored with styling it and the wig comes again out.
Since I’ve began my journey in hairpieces, I’ve been requested, “Are you continue to pure for those who put on a wig?” My reply: “Hell, sure!”
However there are some purists within the pure hair group who consider that sporting something apart from your pure coils isn’t pure sufficient. These girls would have you ever consider that masking or straightening your God-given kinks is one way or the other proof that you simply don’t embrace the great thing about black hair.
When you ask me, actually that’s simply making it too deep. It’s a coiffure. Carrying my hair pure isn’t my manner of creating an announcement about my blackness and, in flip, sporting a wig doesn’t negate my love for my pure hair in any manner.
I get the place they’re coming from, although. As black girls, there’s a variety of emotion and negativity that has include our hair. My mother gave me a perm at four years previous as a result of my Afro hair was “too exhausting to handle.” On the time Afro hair was mired in dangerous connotations. It was too coarse, unruly, and unkempt. Rising up in South Georgia within the early ’90s, I didn’t see many ladies sporting their pure hair except they had been beneath the age of 12. In any other case, it was a variety of weaves, wigs, and perms. Lengthy, straight hair was the best on the time, partly as a result of that aligned with the ladies we noticed in magazines and in media (who occurred to be predominately white).
Then, within the early 2000s, the pure hair motion took off. Girls started to cut off their straight hair, develop out their perms, and elegance their pure hair. It felt like a return to the time within the ’60s and ’70s when activists like Angela Davis wore Afros as a logo of black satisfaction and black magnificence. At present, I see increasingly more girls rocking their pure texture. Some folks nonetheless see it as a political assertion for black girls to put on the hair that naturally grows out of our heads. There’s a pervasive illustration of black girls with pure hair as the last word black queen, earth goddesses, moms of the race.
And that’s nice. However I don’t suppose we have to put all that stress on our hair always. All the pieces does not should be for the tradition. If you wish to put on your hair pure as an announcement, that’s your prerogative. Do you, honey! However I don’t suppose it’s honest to evaluate girls for not making that selection—pure ain’t for everyone, and no girl ought to should defend her blackness simply because she has a perm—or to imagine that any girl who’s pure is making an attempt to show some extent.
Personally, I don’t really feel the necessity to current my hair as a badge of honor.
One of many issues I take pleasure in most about sporting my hair pure is that it’s so versatile. I can put on it braided, curly, straightened, picked out, and, you guessed it, beneath a wig. I like my hair, and I like being a pure black girl, however typically I’m lazy and I need to put on a wig, and I don’t suppose that makes me any much less pure or any much less proud than somebody who does not.
Circumstances in level: Oprah wore a wig by a lot of the ’90s, and when she revealed her pure hair from beneath there, it was luscious and superb and all the things I need my hair to be in life. The identical goes for Beyoncé, who is thought for her superb wig assortment. Her hairstylist not too long ago shared a photograph of her pure hair, and let me let you know, I’ve main curl envy. You’d by no means query their black queenness, would you? Didn’t suppose so.
This weekend I purchased my third wig. It’s—look ahead to it—a bob with big-barrel curls and I like the way it makes me look. Sure, though it makes me appear to be I acquired my hair straightened. So what?
Going pure years in the past made me be at liberty in a variety of methods. I now not needed to spend hours in a salon getting my hair permed and set. It additionally made me care much less about what different folks considered my appears to be like (curls are so unpredictable, and it’s unimaginable to look flawless EVERY day). However sporting a wig offers me a kind of freedom, too. Freedom from the identical ol’ coiffure I put on day by day. Freedom from my weekly, six-hour hair routine. Freedom from having to carry the burden of my tradition on my curls and at all times current myself because the soul sister/dope black woman very best. Regardless of how I put on my hair, or whether or not you possibly can see my hair in any respect, I do know that I’m a proud black girl. My wigs don’t cowl up who I’m—they assist me love who I’m much more.